In the relationship, especially when you are a couple, you know each other’s likes and dislikes. You know each other’s interests, favorite dishes, favorite places, goals, etc. With the days passes by you and your partner develop the relationship and understand more and more about one another. These are the signs that you are growing apart with your relationship.
The case may not be same with every couple. With the time passes by, they may grow distance between them instead of bridging the gap. The distance may go wider and wider and both may become stranger to one another. Here are some sings those can be recognized when you both feel that you are going on opposite direction and the distance between you both is increasing.
- You or your partner stop sharing the things, stops sharing conversations about the things those are important to both of you.
- You stop attending the things together as a part of your routine life.
- Your opinion about the household changes no longer matters.
- Your partner may not feel it interesting to accompany you in going to family functions.
- You may not be aware about your partner is looking out for another job.
- Your partner may get a new vehicle and you are unknown about they were looking for changing the vehicle.
- Your partner may generate new interest and you are unaware of
- The opinions about the things those are important to you both gets suddenly different
- Someone outsider offer some favorite gift to your partner and you are unknown that they had an interest in that
- Your partner may fail to notice the significant changes about you
Growing apart is far less noticeable than growing together. Increasing gap between you and your partner needs to be bridged and not to be increased. Fascination is more fascinating as compared to disillusionment. Increased gap between you and your partner doesn’t mean that your relationship is over. It is true only if you or your partner is not interested in growing together. A lack of interest is the perpetrator behind you both becoming stranger to each other.
If you realize this is happening, it is the golden opportunity to handle the situation carefully. This is the time to be very honest to judge why this is happening. It is the time to think whether you gotten familiar enough with one another to discover that you really don’t have any interest in the future of your partner or a future together. If this is so and your answer is ‘Yes’, it is the best time to make a graceful exit while you both are in the stage of emotional separation.
Well, you can handle the case differently. Is it so important to give up the relationship? If you have become very comfortable with the relationship, continuing the relationship may be a challenge to both of you. It is necessary to redefine your priorities and to bridge the gap between you and your partner.
Is it necessary to remove all your emotions and feeling about your partner as you access this situation? If your relationship is real and sustaining it will definitely light up the good memories and will never let you become stranger of one another. Real love is undeniable, gentle and lasting. Real love is protecting and worth pursuing and not let you to become stranger.