Figuring Out or designing your man is nothing but casting your life partner. I am talking about the designing the special person in your life that you would like to spend the rest of your life with. It is searching somebody that would match to your expectations. So, to search a man of your kind or the person as per your expectations, you need to design him first.
How to design your man?
Designing a man means listing out the qualities, characteristics, features, hobbies and occupations that you would like to have in him. You may have your own ideas about how your man to be. Here is an example about figuring out the designing that I created for my man.
The man of my dream should be good looking, in his late thirties, loves and respect me, handsome, good physique, loving, single with no children, smiling, cheerful, no moustache, etc. He should be able to tell good jokes, like to laugh at good jokes, can sort out the problems easily, can work through problems, etc. The man of my expectation should be able to take good decisions, be brave and courageous on crises, can share his problem with me, can be a shoulder to cry on, etc. He should live abroad but will connect with me soon, preferably does not smoke, does not have beverages, etc. He should be successful in life about anything he does, strong and sturdy, have proper planning of the things, able to plan the work with preferences, etc. He should believe in God, says His prayers, and should have faith in God. The family members too should believe in God, appreciate me for my appearance, my achievements, my skills and my motivations.
The man of my expectation should be clean and tidy, and so his entire family. My soul mate has no grudges about my interests and my hobbies. The family members should be good to our future child or children. He should let me do all the things I want to do with no opposition or grudges. He should not have any objections with my working style and my dream career. He should let me know about his interests and hobbies. And most importantly he lets me manage my finances and wealth in my own way along with helpful tips as and when necessary.
Every lady has its own dream about her life partner or soul mate. Finding out the man you want needs proper listing of the qualities, characteristics, etc. you expect in him. List out them and try to find out the person who can perfectly match with your expectations. Or find the person who possesses almost all or most of the qualities that you want him to have.
The next step would be on the lookout for your special man. For this you can pray to your God or start visualizing the man of your dream. If you believe in what you ask for in your prayers, you will surely get the man of your dreams.
You can start mixing with the people and look in the right places that can match to your interests. You can talk with more and more guys to find the person of your dream as your soul mate. To ensure you have found your perfect life partner, ask him the questions like:
- What do you love to do?
- What is your passion?
- What is your opinion about your future?
- What are your hobbies?
- What kind of friends do you have and what do they do?
- What is your view of life on a whole?
- How you are with your parents and relatives?
When you get the answer of such questions, you can frame out his likes, hobbies, his manners, courtesies, is he ready to commit, his relationship with the people around him, his standard of living, etc. This overall information will give you glimpses of his level of optimism, maturity and the level of confidence. And you can finally conclude whether he is a person of your interest.